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Q. I want our photographer to capture beautiful images at our wedding, but I'm really camera shy. How can I get around this?
A. Sarita White says: If you're camera shy, choose a photographer with a documentary style to capture natural photos without you feeling uncomfortable in forced poses. Feeling relaxed is a huge factor when choosing a company, which is why it's so important to meet the supplier and make sure you all get along. We actually end up being friends with a lot of our clients and this has helped them feel more at ease in front of the lens.
We've found that even the most camera-shy people have a lot more confidence on their wedding day because it's not only the best day of their lives, but they look and feel a million dollars.
Sarita White,Sarita White Photography
Moments that matter
Q. What should I take into consideration before booking my photographer?
A. Hayley Masom says: Every photographer has a different way of working, some have a documentary style while others have a more natural approach and will not undertake any staged situations.
Sit down as a couple with the supplier and discuss what you both want from the day in person or via Zoom – this allows the photographer to understand what you're looking for.
Decide where the photographer should be on the morning of the wedding. If there's only one photographer, capturing getting ready shots can be difficult if you also want photos of the groom and guests arriving at the venue.
Supply the company with a timeline of events and organised family/group shots to ensure nothing else planned gets delayed.
Many couples don't think about what happens if the photographer is ill or can't make the day. Illness can happen at any time, and here at Captcha Photography we have multiple photographers in our team and wedding insurance to cover any unforeseen circumstance.
Many photographers offer deals and packages to couples which include a limited number of images; it's essential to ask who will make the decision on which ones are picked to work on. Also, if digital images are supplied, always confirm what quality/resolution these will be.
Hayley Masom,Captcha Photography
Q. What should we take into consideration before booking a photographer for our wedding?
A. Derek McAllister says: There's a few things you'll need to consider before booking your photographer, one of the most important elements is whether you like that photographer's style and does it go with theme of the wedding day?
Another question that gets overlooked is if they make you feel comfortable and are you happy with them photographing your most special day? I think it's vital that a couple meet up with any prospective photographer in advance, this could be at a wedding fair, at home or even through a video call. You can start that dialogue back and forth once you meet and get a feel for each other. You'll begin to build that confidence and feel at ease in front of the camera. When there's a bond between a couple and their photographer, it shines through the pictures and you'll have memories to treasure forever.
Derek McAllister,Derek McAllister Photography
Q. We're having a winter wedding, but what do we need to take into consideration to ensure we still get the perfect images?
A. Andrew Cooper says: One of the big myths I find as a wedding photographer is that couples are worried that winter weather and shorter daylight hours will mean they cannot get their dream wedding photos. When a couple is choosing a winter wedding, I'd always offer the following key considerations:
- Plan for rain and be pleasantly surprised if it's dry.
- Make sure the venue is beautiful inside in case it rains all day.
- Ensure your photographer walks the venue with you beforehand at the planning meeting to work out indoor and outdoor options of portraits rather than waste time on the day thinking about it.
- Choose a photographer who can work creatively with flash and wider photographer lighting.
- Factor in enough time for creative lighting photography.
- Make sure you've seen plenty of winter wedding photography from the photographer before committing to use them.
- Remember when creating a schedule that daylight hours are reduced in winter.
Andrew Cooper,Stark Weddings
Capture the moment
Q. I want to treasure my wedding images for years to come, what advice do you have for picking the perfect photographer?
A. Estelle Keeber says: First and foremost, you need to have a good relationship with the person who is shooting your wedding. Having an engagement shoot allows time to get a feel for one another and make sure you're on the same page.
If my clients say I'm not the one for them after a pre-wedding shoot, they only have to pay for that. But if they decide to book with me, its my thank you gift to them – so far I've never had anyone not book! Giving my clients this chance means they can rest assured they've made the right decision and not a hasty one.
Choosing a wedding photographer is a big decision and one that shouldn't be rushed. Do your research and look at previous work, but always go with what feels right! This is your day; the supplier should do everything in their power to capture it in a way you'll treasure!
Estelle Keeber,Love Photography 13 Weddings
Capture the moment
Q. I'm really shy when having my photo taken, but how can I ever get around this?
A. Nick Shoot says: I'd always advise you to get to know your photographer; if you click (no pun intended) and can have fun with them, it will help immensely on the day. Request a pre-wedding shoot if they don't offer one, and always include the bridal preparation shoot. These simple things can help you feel at ease with the camera.
Most importantly, speak to your photographer about your worries and concerns. The right supplier will be able to adapt their style to one that's less imposing if needed, making you feel much more comfortable on your special day and help to remove those fears.
I'd also suggest doing a little bit of research to get a feeling for wedding shots and styles you like, then speak with the photographer and find one that excels in natural shots, documentary or journalistic-style images. These can be less imposing and still achieve excellent pictures of your day.
Above all else, remember it's your day and you need to choose a photographer that's interested in your story.
Nick Shoot,Nick Shoot Photography
Q. I become really shy when having my photo taken and I would hate to be like that on our special day. How can I get around this?
A. Tara Winter says: Get to know your photographer, ideally meeting them in person before you book with them and seeing how you feel in their presence. If you can, let them know that you feel shy about being photographed and see how they respond. We don't expect you to be professional models, just your lovely selves. If there are any types of photos of yourself that you really can't stand then let them know; I dislike photos of my profile – you'll never find one of the sides of my face!
Have a pre-wedding shoot with your photographer – this is a great way to see how they direct, respond to you and help you feel at ease. I take my time to work out if a couple prefers me to talk to them or leave them be. Most of the time, with my shyer couples, they prefer to have a little bit of instruction or even distraction. I find that starting by not looking straight at the camera, or having some movement such as walking, can take your mind off the pictures and relax with each other. Think about what and when you have felt good before – perhaps there's a picture of yourself that you do like? Maybe holding hands or snuggling into them will make you feel more secure?
Also try to remember that on your wedding day you'll have a beautiful outfit on and will feel incredible.
During the wedding, I pay particular attention to having short portrait sessions throughout the day, rather than one long session after the ceremony. I find that this means your smile stays fresh and you enjoy those moments together.
Tara Winter,Pudding and Plum Photography
Picture perfect photographer
Q. I'm looking to find the perfect photographer for my wedding but how can I ensure I'm picking the right company to capture my special day? Do you have any tips or advice?
A. Nick Shoot says: For me, it's important couples pick the right photographer for their special day to be comfortable and confident that they've made the right choice. I'd suggest creating a mood board to start collecting the types of wedding photography you like. Use this to narrow down your photographer by establishing your own preferred style.
Next, do your homework! Make sure you read reviews and check out photographer's social media pages. Never just go for someone who just has lovely images, make sure they show interest in you. Are they compatible with your wedding, will they fit into your day with and your guests? Never just choose the first photographer you meet – there are many out there with plenty of skills.
Nick Shoot,Nick Shoot Photography
The look of love
Q. I want to get some romantic shots of me and my wife at our wedding but I'm awkward when having photos take. What would you suggest?
A. Kyra Williams says: Kyra says: No one wants to pose all day at their wedding, you don't need to have formal staged photographs for beautiful romantic images. Personally, I'd encourage a relaxed walk around the venue and ask couples to have a chat about their day so far – natural intimate moments can be captured without awkward posing.
Picture perfect in winter
Q. Winter weddings are a wonderful challenge, the main concern is lack of light which means photographers need to have more preparation in a winter shoot.
A. Sammy S says: This really is dependent on when the ceremony is, but most professional cameras can shoot in low light conditions anyway.
My couples have generally opted to have their photo shoot before the wedding ceremony. All they've got to do is remember to wear their wedding rings for the photographs.
All of my couples have been pleasantly surprised by the ease of having wedding photographs taken first; it often serves as a private moment before all eyes are upon them. They feel far more relaxed going into the venue having done this significant thing together.
The sunset in December occurs around 4.30pm; I have done midnight weddings with barely any light, so I'm able to work in any situation. I often encourage a spontaneous couple shot if it's snowing or as a winter sunset falls behind them. It all depends on the mood the couple are wanting and what the photographer can create within the surroundings.
Looking through the camera lens
Q. Tying the knot in winter is exciting but I'm worried because it gets dark very quickly, what are the must-have shots?
A. Daniel Hughes says: Daniel says: Winter weddings can be amazing and although I prefer to use natural available light, I think it's really important to get great photographs in any lighting condition. I highly recommend working with your photographer over your timings to make sure you use the available light for any key shots you want such as group shots and couple portraits. There are no right or wrong answers to which shots your have during this time, especially as some weddings may all be indoors due to the weather. I often have two short portrait sessions for couples, regardless of the time of year. Where possible, I plan with my couples to capture that golden hour light just before sunset. However it can rain, so even during the summer months, my evening portraits can be inside using the best of the venue and creating great light.
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